7 Days of BlogMas: My Ins & Outs for 2025

Tis the final weekend before Christmas, and we’re all raring to go—right? *nervous laugh* As I write this in real time, it’s 8:30 a.m, I’m tucked up in bed with my laptop, gearing up for my first-ever run with a local running club… in the rain, no less. But before I brave the drizzle, it’s time for the penultimate post of the 7 Days of BlogMas. Today’s entry is short and sweet because, honestly, who doesn’t love a cheeky Ins vs. Outs list? Let’s dive in!

Ins

• Doing a Hobby Just for Fun

  Tap back into hobbies just for the fun of it. Maybe you’re painting with no plan, baking and making a mess, or singing your heart out (badly) in the shower. Forget turning everything into a side hustle—doing something just because it makes you happy is what it’s all about.

  
  

• Setting Achievable Micro-Goals

  Big goals are great, but they can feel overwhelming, especially in the New Year. Micro-goals—like reading 10 pages of a book a day or drinking one extra glass of water—are where it’s at. They’re bite-sized wins that keep you motivated, and the satisfaction of ticking them off is unmatched.

  
  

• Exercising the Way You Want To

  Say goodbye to punishing yourself with workouts you dread. The 2025 vibe is about moving in ways that feel good. Dance in your kitchen, join a roller-skating club, or go on scenic hot girl walks. If the gym isn't your go-to, skip it unapologetically.

  
  

• In-Person Community Building

  The internet is great, but nothing beats face-to-face connection. Whether it’s joining local meetups, starting a book club, or finding new friends at events like CLIQ (a subtle bit of promo), 2025 is about showing up and rediscovering the beauty of IRL connections.

  
  

• Weekly Digital Detoxes

  Screen time is out; realtime is in. Dedicate one day a week to going screen-free—no endless scrolling or doom-swiping. Replace your phone time with journaling, cooking, or whatever makes you feel good. You’ll feel lighter and more connected to the real world.

  
  

• Setting Boundaries Like a Pro

  In 2025, “no” becomes your power move. Whether it’s ignoring work emails after hours, bailing on plans you’re not feeling, or just carving out time to breathe, setting boundaries is the ultimate way to prioritise yourself.

  
  

• Spending More Time in Nature

  Take every opportunity to head outdoors (weather permitting, of course, because well... the UK) Whether it’s a stroll through a park, a weekend hike, or a quiet moment on a bench reading, grounding yourself in nature is a surefire way to boost your mood and mental clarity.

Outs

• Comparing Life Timelines

  It’s time to stop comparing your life to someone else’s highlight reel. Whether it’s a friend buying their first house, engagement photos flooding your feed, or someone killing it at work, remember: life isn’t a race. 2025 is all about owning your timeline and trusting that your path is uniquely yours.

  
  

• Toxic Positivity

  The “good vibes only” mantra is out. It’s okay to have bad days, to feel off, or to just want to stay in bed. This year, instead of masking tough emotions with forced smiles, give yourself permission to process and sit with them. Sometimes, feeling shitty is part of healing.

  
  

• Extreme Wellness Trends & Fads

  No more $500 juice cleanses or unpronounceable superfood powders (unless that floats your boat). In 2025, wellness is all about keeping it simple. Focus on what works for your life (and your budget) and actually makes you feel good—whether it’s a balanced diet, a morning walk, or just staying hydrated. Wellness is personal, not performative.

  
  

• Romanticising Burnout

  Hustle culture? We’re leaving that in 2024—at least, we’re trying to. Glamorizing overwork and burnout as markers of success is no longer the vibe. In 2025, success is all about rest, joy, and balance. So take that long lunch, use all your vacation days, and remember: work smarter, not harder.

  
  

• Judging Yourself in Tough Times

  Life can be messy, and so can you. Beating yourself up when things don’t go as planned is out; self-compassion is in. Treat yourself the way you’d treat a best friend—with patience, kindness, and a gentle reminder that hard times don’t last forever.

  
  

• Fearing Failure When Trying Something New

  Trying and failing is no longer a reason for embarrassment—it’s proof that you’re putting yourself out there. Whether it’s starting a new hobby, taking on a career shift, or just learning to parallel park, 2025 is about laughing off mistakes and celebrating the courage to try.

  
  

  And there we have it, another blog post bites the dust. Enjoy your grey Saturday whatever you are up to and see you tomorrow for the final blog post of 2024! As always, catch up on all things The Life of Molly every day and check out my IG here!